I'm new to 'the lifestyle' - what should I expect?

If you are new to the lifestyle and are unsure of what it's about, read the answers below and then check out our NEW TO THE LIFESTYLE page to get some more info.

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What happens there?

It’s a sophisticated venue to meet up with old friends.  It’s a safe and exciting place to meet up with people you have met online.  It’s also a welcoming environment to come and meet new people.  You can just chat and watch, you can play with your partner, or you can play with others.  The choice is entirely yours.

 

How much does it cost to attend?

The prices are different depending on the level of membership you have, and whether you are a single lady or a couple.  Please see the pricing structure here on the ENTRY page.

Each weekend is listed on the EVENTS page, and you can book your spot there.

 

Do I have to have a membership to attend?

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No, you don’t!  Membership is a good way to save money on the door charge, to have priority access to special events and be invited to exclusive member events.  But if you would like to come along as a once-off to see what it’s all about, you can pay at the door and enter without a membership.

 

What is included?

Entry to the venue until closing time, access to all general areas, a secure locker, towels, condoms and lube, and of course great company!  A variety of wine, beer, soft drink is available for purchase, along with grazing platters, pizzas, and other nibblies.

 

What should I wear?

Dress to impress!  Wear what you would wear any time you were getting dressed up for a night out on the town.  Underneath that, you may like to put on some lingerie or nice underwear.  You may like to remove your shoes when you dress down later in the evening or leave them on, and you may wish to bring other shoes such as sandals or flats for when you are wandering around in your lingerie/underwear.  You are also welcome to wear a sarong or negligee over your lingerie if you wish.

 

What should I bring?

All you need is yourself and the entry fee, as well as your membership card if you have one.  If you are wanting to use a locker, you will need to bring your own lock, or bring $20 cash to borrow a lock (fully refundable upon return of the lock) or $10 to purchase a lock.  You may choose to bring your own lube and condoms (both will be provided), hair ties, deodorant, wipes, make-up bag, flats/sandals for later in the night...

 

What time should I arrive?

The evening begins at 8:00pm on Fridays and Saturdays, so you are welcome to arrive any time from then.  Arriving early gives you plenty of time to relax in the wine bar and mingle with others, or you can head straight into the play area.  We recommend arriving before 9:30pm to have time to socialise and settle in and make the most of the facilities.  Entry must be prior to 11:00pm.

 

Where can I leave my clothing and valuables?

Try not to bring valuables with you.  But for the things you need to have, we have lockers inside the venue that you are welcome to use.  You will be given a combination lock so that your clothing and valuables will be kept together securely.  
 

You are welcome to bring your own lock with you to use on a locker. Alternatively you can purchase one for $10, or we can lend you one with a $20 cash deposit, which we return upon return of your lock.